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And the most peculiar thing about it's that his previous rejection colours the way. He lets that past rejection decide just how much he believes women appreciate him as a man, and how much he appreciates himself as a guy. Since he was rejected by the woman, and of course the value he believes he has is very low.
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You need to remember that my techniques do work! That I hear success stories sent to me from people who struck lucky. The secret is to keep at it like most things in your life, you get. Otherwise it's like moving twice joining a gym because you were muscular and fit, and then stopping. These items can take some time.
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But, once the novelty had worn away, the overriding sense of needing to love, to be cherished and to be loved and to cherish, to be cared for and to care, took over. I found that having a tangible relationship was not sufficient for me. I needed to connect with a guy on a psychological, emotional and intellectual level. Casual sex does not give you that connection longterm.
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This backs up my point since a huge majority of guys I have met said they're good with women and don't need advice or try to provide advice to their friends( which generally proves to be incorrect) because it is frowned up in our society to not be good with girls.
Find a café, coffee joint Hour, or the like, to have somewhere to sit and converse without close of ears. So neither party should make excuses should the need arise to create an escape, have an arrangement that this meeting is meant to remain brief.
Even in the event that the physical dance quit from continuing, however, you still ought to hold space for the feelings of the moment and admit them. In one of the conditions where it's best to not take things further, a polite smile of appreciation for the feelings will do just fine.