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So as to be prosperous, you want to figure out this stuff. Don't feel bad if you don't understand this right now. Most people don't. That's 1reason behind the high amount of relationship failure we see.
You can both find ways to get your needs fulfilled by figuring out a compromise if one partner needs more attachment than the other. The partner who wants affection may not get as much as he or she would enjoy but with discussion could get more than was previously offered. The partner who's less affectionate will want to create more of an effort to offer affection, knowing how important it's to another spouse.
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